Poem by Sphena Nombuso Myaka 

 

 

Yuu only had a place on the heart of ma thoughts

When both our eyes observed and turned our thoughts beautiful;
When our hearts attract
... Why? ..
Cause they two different hearts
(Tha opposite attracts)

I'm in a total different situation
*I'm with an empty heart
* A fragile heart
* A lost heart
And an empty soul
And yuu attract all of tha above with yuur colourful soul and high energized heart ready to fill up mine ...
With every word yuu let slip your

mouth
With every electric touch that made ma blood rush;

See I had told yuu I was with an empty , lost , fragile heart ..
So yuu knew exactly what to do and you did it right ..
So at thus point , felt like I had have everythang in life , with juss only you in it
... Why? ...
Cause you tha one I'd call everyday , knew every single detail bout I .. And felt so good;
The one I'd run to in times of fear and teary moments.. ;
You'd let me fall into your arms;
Place your finger under ma chin and pull up ma face .. Tell me you here , right there so I aint gotta worry
And afterwards let me wear thus huge smile .. Brought light fugitivly

Until thus one day I .. I had found out I weren't tha only you did tha exact to;
Then suddenly .. Power shuts down ..
Em lights go off;
I fall .. Buh no yuu didn't catch me thus time around ;
And then tha heart gets empty by tha minute and I hear it breakin' as I lay there starring at tha roof top;
I am with no power , ma world juss shut

down
.. Come next morning;
I awaken ; only ta realize I had put yuu all up on ma head , the heart of ma thoughts and tha soul of ma physical hence I'm still breathin and livin happily ever without yuu;
... Why? ...
Cause somebody else is appreciatin what yuu didn't ..
Don't get mad now!
#Blows a kiss and walks away#

Racism On Social Media!

Ken Sinclair status: Seriously, seriously, seriously had enough of the blacks in this country. Arrogant fucking swines, and I will make it my facebook status because I want them all to know. You are all fuck all without whites, you would still be in your little mud huts. Go on as if we owe you everything, we owe you shit! Expect everything for nothing and have the biggest attitudes I have ever come across. You will all fall short sooner or later…karma Ya like every fucking day u walk along and mind your own business and they walk straight into u as if they own the place, no decency to walk behind one another, in their mind the white must get out the way. Wherever you go they stand and stare you up and down as if youre some piece of shit. They always skinner in their retarded language. Their attitudes towards things are a joke, by far the laziest people I have ever come across. You go to the UK, the black people there are decent, its just these local SA fuckers that are so stuck up. And its bullshit man, its racism on another level, yet if a white says anything about it we are now “racist”. Fuck them, theyre the biggest bloody racists. And no I wasnt status bombed, if youre a darkie lover then go fuck one

If you arent a racist, go spend a day at Cape Tech, in town, you will wana join the KKK when you are done. Fucking brain dead monkeys

comments by others: All i will say ryt now, is ur opinion on the world changes seeing it from different eyes, u are fully entitled to ur opinion, and anyone that attends our tech will know it, no matter what race you may be, there is a different breed out there ruining our education and our complete matter of being.

yeh maybe this isnt the ryt way to spit it out there, but ken has a point. Dont let it get inbtwn gud ppl tho?? ANYWAY. aslong as they not striking as usual:)

His reply: Exactly Sam…all I’m trying to say is that it was always seen as whites being the racists, yet no one considers them being the racists? Theres something about university students that I just cannot take. Old black people, that actually suffered the shit of apartheid, are possibly the nicest people you can come across, humble, kind old people. But these youngsters of today seem to think that they are owed everything, yet they didnt even go through it. And people that havent been to varsity cant have a say because they arent exposed to it. But they seriously seriously are ruining our education and our country. And its about time we speak up man

other comments: Tomorrow will be better day Ken. 

his reply: I hope so Ange..this week has been so kak so far…purely coz of being around them

other comments: The students at UCT in Res are some of the most dedicated… Way more dedicated than any of the other students…

his reply: good for them

other comments: taking freedom of speech to a new level!!

his reply: Ya needs to be said. People are to skaam to open their mouths

other comments: Ken, I know how you feel brother, I studied at the Belleville campus, was the worst, don’t let it get you down though.

his reply: haha ohhhhh shit! That place needs flood lights on to see where you going. Dunno how you managed that

other comment: I didn’t, that whole place is going to fucking hell. So glad I left. So much happier dude.

his reply: hahaha Alex!! Ya man, I’ll just stick it out, not too long left

THE LAST COMMENT, MAY SHOCK YOU:

“Sometimes i just wanna pull out a fucking pump-action shotgun and do the deed.FUCK”

A reply by Anna: “ken with all respect, your status and consequent comments are riddled with generalizations and racist ideology. there is a difference between freedom of speech and hate speech. your misguided views encroach upon the dignity of an entire group of people, which shows your intolerance and arrogance. and your arrogance is exceeded only by your ignorance. your blanket generalizations made from your seemingly petty observations have no legitimate ground. your insinuation that this country belongs to white people and that the presence of black people is an encroachment of your right to it is rather ignorant. it shows your deep lack of understanding of the history of this country. quite frankly if you have these negative views, perhaps your presence in the UK would be welcomed. just to recap your words about “blacks”, “arrogant fucking swines” “fuck all without whites” “retarded language”. the irony of these words showcase your white supremacist indoctrination and lack of real education. emancipate your mind!”

His reply: “ya because blacks are idiots. just cause you cant get white guys doesnt mean you must now hate on us? if youre stupid enough to believe whites arent supreme then it shows your lack of knowledge…what has a black ever invented? Rome 2000 years ago was more advanced than Africa today…so maybe you need to brush up on your knowledge? But you like having sex with blacks, which in my view is fucking disgusting, but thats my opinion so whatever, go fuck some more blacks”

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Above is the racist rant found on Facebook! Please forward this to everyone you know and take a stance against open racism and hate speech on social networks! View the link http://t.co/ZYMs8hPd for more comments by Ken Sinclair when he justifies himself.

FASHION COMES WITH FLEXIBILITY!

Khumalo Snethemba

Are you that typa person that has a style signature? That wherever you are they know you are a short things person?  That wears dresses only? Limiting yourself from  fearing that you will not pull them off? Well youve come to the right place! Its very important that as a person especialy youth that you have your fun in all aspects of your life. Take away that stigma and be versatile. Try out new things, play around with your clothes, turn that closet up side down and leave that room messy in the morning if need be. Who cares? we young and wild and free!!!! hahahaha yup thats right! You would be surprised at how even hotter you look in other items of clothing. So today we have a young lady here in different styles ofcourse not all that exist in the world of fashion but personally think she rocks all those she has on and so can you. Do pick a thing or two and hopefully this will get you to finally wear thaaat lil black number youve been keeping all along in your collection this weekend. Otherwise from me have an amazeballs weekend, look good, feel great and have a blast. Look out for more street style to see numerous other cray cray styles out there. Enjoy! 

Nothing too much just keep it simple.You can add a blazer and neckpiece to create that edgy feel to it.

 My boyfriend jeans....who doesnt want them? Rock it with any shirt for that "boyfriend" look but blend it with some nice colours for that feminine element as well. You are a woman afterall.

 We all know those people that must have accessories in every outfit and love metallics. Well there you have it.Not too loud or too quiet for you not to be noticed.

Who said short means skanky? You can still do short and look classy n respectable. Yes?  No? Letssss

Incase you thought sophisticated and glamor dont mix. Think again!  Dont forget a pair of shades or a chunky solid neckpice to complete the look.

This winter is all about print on print and colour *KardashianTip

Be careful not to mix too much. No leopard, zebra and tiger print at once please.

Very relaxed and allowing. You can wear it with your sandals and go to the mall with your friends or grab

your sexy clutch bag and you'll be ready to go.

NB: Feel free to interact with us on our twitter page DurbaBella and tell us what you think!

University of Life

Writer: Nonzuzo Dlamini

I read somewhere that we keep making the same mistakes until we learn our lessons and so I thought: how many lessons do we learn in one day and I’m not talking about the lectures where we go and pretend to be listening to the lecturer when all we actually want to do is put our signature on the register and leave (that’s if you couldn’t get someone to sign for you). Each and every day offers a chance to learn and often we are too busy trying to figure things out, we never really learn lessons and that’s why we never stop making the same mistakes. I recently spent half of my day stuck at E.G Malherbe library typing up an assignment which I was to submit the following day (It’s relevant to add that we were given this assignment right at the beginning of the semester). People arrived and left and I was still sitting in the same spot typing away. There was that thrill that comes with that adrenalin rush which comes with rushing to meet a deadline but the reality was I was in fact another one of those people who complain about never having time but never really spend their time doing productive things – the procrastinator. The deadline was met (with the aid of Coffee and some copying and pasting) but the cycle continued to another assignment and it was at that point that I finally learnt the essence of the saying, “Procrastination is the thief of time”. How many of us have that thing that you’ve been meaning to do but never quite find the time to do it? Perhaps it’s starting to save some of your extra cash, maybe it’s quitting bad habits like biting your nails, smoking or overcoming that addiction you have with shoes or beer or maybe you’ve been meaning to start something new, maybe start going to the gym or like students always say when a new year starts, devote more time to your studies? Perhaps it’s telling that special someone just how much they mean to you or that over-demanding, underpaying boss just what you think of them? (I don’t advise that unless you have something to fall back on. It’s tough economic times). Truth is we all have those things we either need or want to do but we never really do them, sometimes it’s fear and sometimes it’s just pure laziness. If its fear, I ask you, what would you do if you weren’t afraid? When you have the answer to that, go out and like Nike says: Just do it! (On condition that it puts you in no trouble with either your value system or the law).Go out live and take note of the lessons life has to teach you. Tertiary education gets us qualifications, jobs and all the things money can buy (well, most of them) but it’s the University of life that grooms us to be people and take all the things life throws at us when we aren’t making busy making money…

 

Before you proceed please be warned that this blog post includes nude pics. I truly apologise incase someone is offended or thinks this is wrong. The reason why I have put these pictures up is not to take away the whole point of the feature. Also do remember that the main aim for this blog is to expose our REAL lifestyles as young durbanites. You are welcome to post your own opinion about this act and you can simply send me an email: durbanbella@gmail.com. Thanks.

Facebook celebs!

We all have that one friend that has too many facebook friends, gets too many likes and comments on their status messages in two mins after their update. I remember in 2010 I got an invite from a young beautiful lady on facebook and later on we became very good friends. She had started posting very erotic pictures of herself on facebook already and each time u would want to find out how she would simply tell u, 'because I can'. Having started a blog this year, I decided it was a must that I do an interview with her to let her tell the world what she thinks about her own behavior and if shes ever gonna stop. 

Who is this Pretty Khuzwayo that everyone keeps talking about on facebook?

I am Ntombi Pretty Khuzwayo(22), Pweety Be KillinEm' on facebook. I am a mother of a 4 year old babygirl and a Durbanite.  I am sexy, sophisticated, strong, loving, real, nasty, i.d.g.a.f, friendly, straightforward woman, take it or leave it.

Do u think of youself as a FB celeb? How many friends u have? 

 I don't take myself as a FB celeb but I guess I am popular. I got about  4000 something friends, not really sure because I unfriend and replace & get blockd/unfriended everyday.

What draws people's attention so much?

I am not afraid of expressing myself sexually. I am VERY sexually EXPRESSIVE and I DEFINITELY love myself. I take exotic pics so I don't do porn. I tell it like it is, Xpression & Attitude. I will make your day by just updating your status.

What responses have you gotten from people?

 FB friends I've had since 2010, are the ones who do not hate, judge me. They accept me for who I am. Im being called names evryday(prostitute, hoe, stripper, mbau no.2, celeb elphashile, attention seeker, a wanna be,etc) but they arre just wasting their time, they'll never bruise my ego. Who cares what they think of me? Im not on FB to please no f**n body.

Some of your pictures where reported? Tell us more about that?

Reported more than 5times since last year. I've gotten 2 warnings, FB doesn't tell u who reported. They just tell u sumone reported your statuss/pic and it has been removed, u blocked from uploading for about 5/10days.

Friends?

I've met more than 28 FB friends if that's what u asking and I have few close friends, mostly men though. I keep my circle tight!

What message would u like pass on to people?

I don't care what others think of me is really none of my business. I'm not a model/a wanna be..I'm just inlove with the camera. I know where I am going, I know what I'm doing, & with God by my side I will go far. *love yourself even if u think no one else does

@Pweety Be KillinEm

HYDRO'S MILLIONAIRE CD LAUNCH!

Our favourite, young South African rapper @FameboyHydro AKA Dro Hefner is inviting everyone from the country to his CD launch. You can follow the guy on twitter(@fameboyHydro) for more details and be sure not to miss Kenny Kunene's SO WHAT this monday at 8:30 where he would tell us more about himself!

Check out the invite below by the man himself:

INVITE TO #Empty_Fridge_Album_Launch

Its the biggest time in my life right now, in 15days I will announce when and where my #EMPTY_FRIDGE_ALBUM_LAUNCH_ will be hosted!

STRICTLY guestlist, so if u attending this event please tell me now and tell me the NAMES of the people your coming with!

The #EMPTY_FRIDGE_ALBUM_LAUNCH

HYDRO will be on stage tearing it up along side a SPECIAL INTERNATIONAL ACT (ladies ya'll gonna die when u find out who it is)

Hottest/Flyest lady in my Launch will win LV red bottoms according to your size, two bottles of ACE OF SPADES, 5grand and a night in the Raddison Hotel in Sandton with u and your girls, boyfriend or suga daddy...

Gimme your names and who you cummin with coz I'm dealing with the Guestlist...no name NO ENTRANCE....

We will even have adverts about my launch nd a competions on tv about it soon!

BIGGEST N' MOST EXPENSIVE CD LAUNCH IN THE HISTORY OF SOUTH AFRICA N' THE CONTINENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#ZarEmpire #NuMoneyGang #ItsTheWattvilleBaby

EMPTY FRIDGE droppin SOOOON!!

 

Catch my life story about where I'm from on So What this monday etv 8:30pm!

God Bless u. Thank You

Street Style

Again I did street style with some of my crazy stylish people on campus...

Sike

Ndu

Disa

Nomfundo



Kwanda



Sli

Lu

Mandisi with the Ladies

Mandisi

Disa and mandisi

Mandisi and Lu swapped Jackets

To Mandisi and the ladies: I had so much fun taking pics of u guys!! thanks!!

The 90 day rule..

Do girls really wait 90 days before they start having sex with their partners?

I was looking for one of my files from my book box when Steve Harvey's book fell out and I remembered one of the very interesting topics when I once read it back in 2009. Steve Harvey wrote about the 90 day rule in his book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man".

In my own understanding I would define the 90 day rule as the waiting period that starts from when you date a guy till the time you decide to have sex with him. This rule is nothing new. I remember a whole episode of Girlfriends being devoted to this where the character Joan revealed her rule about not giving it up to a man until after the 90 day wait period.
Steve Harvey bases this on when you start a job you generally have to work for 90 days before you are eligible for the benefits. He says that women should wait 90 days before they start giving up their benefit package.

Here are the responses I got from my fellow Durbanites when I asked them if that rule still exists:

"Girls don't usually wait that long because they believe that you will automatically lose the guy. There is also this idea that relationship is about having fun and that fun goes along with sex." Snonzah.

"Believe it or not I made my boyfriend wait for the whole year." S.K

"They don't event wait for a month. Majority will engage before 90 days. 90 days is tooooo much." Nana

"Any anyone that waits may be setting themselves up for a big disappointment." C

Why 90 days? I mean can’t you tell before that if you can't deal with him?

“I already know he is a good guy and that I want to be with him. I’m just giving him time to realise that ain’t a girl out there better than me. Time to cut all his Plan B chicks! Men are slow to see what’s right in front of them.” Zama (from Skoolboi's Playground)

But does it really have to be 3 months?

Shoeology 101

Something I can't even explain just gave me the oomph to go around taking pictures of people's shoes around today.


I am told that girls love shoes more than guys.. how true is this?




Zine's shoe design stood out for me because she made them herself by putting together different coloured buttons and yellow laces which is very creative.

Zine's shoes

   More creativity by Praise..

Praise got his shoes from Galleria

  “Give a girl the right shoes, and she can conquer the world.” – Marilyn Monroe

Ayanda's shoes- Mr Price



Ayanda T's shoes from Rage



Zandile's shoe-  Puma

I was definitely not going to leave out the carvella as it is the mostly worn shoe in Durban.

Dudu's shoes- carvella


 

Nomfundo's shoes- Mr Price

To enter a weekly shoe giveway http://www.princessdominique.com/fashionblog/2010/03/keep-entering-more-shoes-are-coming/

Your favourite Zara skirts.

Prices of skirts at Zara range from R379 to R599..

Yolanda Mbokazi is a young passionate model who believes that she has a role to play in tackling the toughest social challenges in South Africa. 

Yolanda shares with Durban Bella that modelling is not only about glamour but its about being a role model a charity person and a community builder. She further explains that through modelling she has gained alot of confidence in herself.

 

Next year, Yolanda plans to study law and carry on with modelling part-time because education comes first to her.


During my spare time..
"Mostly, I hang out with my boyfriend, watch movies, read and write poems."

The lucky gentlemen is.. 
"Infact his not lucky, his blessed, we are both blessed to have each other. His name is Theo Luthuli, his a very loving, caring & dedicated gentlemen who would fight for what he loves & believes in. He means a lot to me. His my better half & I can't even imagine life without him."

How many times have u been properly inlove?  
"Well I would say once(in my present relationship)."

Yolanda's advice for all young girls that wish to become models..
"My advice to the young ladies there is to believe in yourself, be dedicated & have courage in what u do. Be careful who you sign up with because there are people who are very cruel out there, who wants to take advantage of you because you want to be helped in fulfilling yourself modelling career. I’ve always wanted to become a model and I was lucky to have a very supporting mom, family & boyfriend."



Yolanda and her siblings



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