The Power of Friendships

          *lost so many and gained none*

     

  

29/04/2012@19:30pm
Written by: Experience

You need to be able to love in order to hate, resent, fear, respect, or be bitter towards anyone. No sense of feeling energies without the true base... Of LOVE...

Let's cruise on this ship we call friendship, waves can damage so many things, now you are left with a boat, but it cares too much weight and its so small, that onw you are just left with your own float jacket..

Through out the years we have met so many wonderful people, some we related to in so many different levels some we don't relate to at all.  There are those you just want to have a hold of your whole life because they make such a huge impact, they make a difference in what you believed could not be changed.

You don't choose your own family, you don't choose your life, but God gave us the chance to choose our friends but we can't keep them all.

Change..... There are so many changes that one undergo's in life, but right now the most painful change is that of difference, difference in choices, you and your friend want to be in different Universities because you are not the same people. This is where it all happens, u start loosing so many, and you gain none at all to even try replace, and fill in the missing spaces. You late realise you where so busy counting sand granules that are off no importance while you were loosing 1 precious stone.
A stone that doesn't shine to many but to you its the brightest of all. A stone that doesn't show of its worth, but to you its worth more than the universe can offer, a stone so precious that.... Even words can't explain but actions have to take over and change all things.....

Don't let your friendships end or loose value because of the distance. Those that know english say "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and indeed it does.  Just don't use that as a refuge to anything because not all hearts have the capability to grow fonder because they don't love.
Not all friend value each other the same way.

Some try to hard to keep their stones, some don't at all, but it takes a real friend to know and understand you at all times. It takes a true friend to remember you when times are hard and when they not, it takes a real friend to acknowledge another, it take absolute love of a real friend to know you are and always will be their STONE!!

But it takes a really true and honest friend to treasure you and protect you because you are their STONE.

You are your friends most worthy stone, therefore, you shall be treated like the diamond you true are...

If not..... Remember you will always....

Make so many, u will loose so many and you will gain none after that, because you are now only left with the best of the best.

*QUALITY*
*DYNAMIC*
*REAL*
*TRUE*
*HONEST*
*PURE @HEART*

So Thank God 4 keeping you safe!!!

I LOVE YOU all with your absence. You still are my STONES. But God knows more than I do.
1. Thando Mbanjwa
2. Rudo Mphasane
3. Sne "dot"  Khumalo
4. Thando Gumede
5. Tuleka Songxaba
6. Simelwe Mpofana
7. Snothando Zulu
*sad part is they all meant the world to me, now the world means nothing*